Yeni ak\u0131m medya ve \u00f6zellikle Facebook, ard\u0131ndan Instagram hayat\u0131m\u0131za girdi gireli ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z psikososyal evrimin en b\u00fcy\u00fck par\u00e7as\u0131, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, bilinir, tan\u0131n\u0131r olmak \u00fczerine \u00e7aba verilmesine ili\u015fkin inan\u00e7lar silsilesi belki de. 2012 y\u0131l\u0131ndan beri “sahibi oldu\u011fum” asl\u0131nda sahibi oldu\u011funu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m, say\u0131s\u0131z i\u00e7erik \u00fcretti\u011fim, pandemi d\u00f6neminde canl\u0131 yay\u0131nlarla binlerce insana ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m instagram hesab\u0131m nas\u0131l bir gecede silindi gitti, hem de mavi tikimle birlikte, gelin anlatay\u0131m.<\/p>\n
Dijital medyan\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131 olma durumu benim i\u00e7in radyo istasyonlar\u0131n\u0131n internet \u00fczerinden yay\u0131n yapmaya ba\u015flamas\u0131 ile has\u0131l olmu\u015ftu. G\u00f6k\u00e7eada FM’de manuel, klasik yay\u0131n yaparken, Radyo Aktif, Y\u0131ld\u0131z FM gibi radyolarda art\u0131k internet yay\u0131n\u0131na ge\u00e7mi\u015ftik. Bir yandan akademik e\u011fitimim devam ediyor, di\u011fer yandan radyoculuk yap\u0131yor, ayn\u0131 zamanda yerel gazetelerde k\u00f6\u015fe yaz\u0131p edit\u00f6rl\u00fck yap\u0131yordum. Beklenmedik h\u0131zda geli\u015fen teknoloji bizleri web bloglara, oradan da Facebook ve Instagram’da i\u00e7erik \u00fcretmeye itti.<\/p>\n
Hayat\u0131m\u0131n bu k\u0131sm\u0131ndan epeyce memnundum hep. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7apl\u0131 \u015f\u00f6hretimin tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor, bana gelen ahlaks\u0131z, uygunsuz teklifleri burnu havada \u015fekilde d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden reddediyor, o y\u00fczden \u015f\u00f6hretimin \u00e7ap\u0131n\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fctemedi\u011fim ama kendimle gurur duydu\u011fum zamanlard\u0131. Pandemi d\u00f6neminde \u00fcnl\u00fclerle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m r\u00f6portajlar, online s\u00f6yle\u015filer, Instagram canl\u0131 yay\u0131nlar\u0131 beklentimin \u00f6tesinde g\u00fczel gidiyordu. Derken Robinson’a A\u015f\u0131k Olmak isimli ilk ve hen\u00fcz tek roman\u0131m okuyucu ile bulu\u015ftu, hem de en prestijli yay\u0131n evlerinden birinden, \u0130thaki Grup, M\u00fcptela yay\u0131nlar\u0131…<\/p>\n
Bir sabah uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131mda Instagram’\u0131n bana mavi tik verdi\u011fini g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcmde sevinmi\u015ftim do\u011frusu. Ad\u0131m arama motorlar\u0131nda s\u0131k\u00e7a ge\u00e7ti\u011finden m\u00fctevellit mavi tik’e lay\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fclm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm. Tik’imle mutlu mesut ya\u015farken \u00f6zel sekt\u00f6re ge\u00e7i\u015fim, ve devam\u0131nda doktoraya ba\u015flay\u0131\u015f\u0131m dijital g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fc azaltm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. \u00d6yle de olsa kenar\u0131ndan k\u00f6\u015fesinden i\u00e7erik \u00fcretmeye devam ediyordum. Hatta sonradan hapislere d\u00fc\u015fen s\u00f6z\u00fcmona bir fenomen hesab\u0131m\u0131 kapatt\u0131rmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015ft\u0131 k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan. O zaman da Instagram “hesab\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fcvende tutmak i\u00e7in Meta aboneli\u011fi al\u0131n\u0131z” demi\u015fti ve beni tabiri caizse g\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc haraca ba\u011flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Anla\u015f\u0131lan Tik’im yetmiyordu.<\/p>\n
Ge\u00e7en sene i\u015ften ayr\u0131l\u0131p doktora tezime ve i\u00e7erik \u00fcretmeye yeniden yo\u011funla\u015ft\u0131m. Son bir y\u0131lda da iyi gidiyordum. Etkile\u015fimlerim milyonun \u00fczerindeydi. \u0130\u00e7eriklerim be\u011feniliyor, takip\u00e7i say\u0131m art\u0131yordu. Zaman zaman hesab\u0131ma sald\u0131r\u0131 olsa da \u00e7ok \u00f6nemsemiyordum, meta aboneli\u011fime ve mavi tikime g\u00fcveniyordum. Kendimi de bir \u015fey sanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131mdan amaaan kim benimle neden u\u011fra\u015fs\u0131n ki diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyordum.<\/p>\n
Derken bir sabah kalkt\u0131m ki Instagram hesab\u0131m silinmi\u015f! Ask\u0131ya al\u0131nma, inceleme vs de\u011fil, direkt silinmi\u015f. Tek a\u00e7\u0131klamas\u0131 “Kural ihlali yapt\u0131n\u0131z”, ba\u015fka anlaml\u0131 bir a\u00e7\u0131klama yok. Bu sosyal medya i\u015flerinden anlayan siber g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc arkada\u015flar incelediler ve dediler ki, “Hocam birileri seni doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 olarak \u015fikayet etmi\u015f, \u015fikayeti \u00e7ok ciddi bir ekip i\u015fiyle yapm\u0131\u015flar, bir gecede \u015fikayet say\u0131s\u0131 binlerce olmu\u015f olacak ki sabah\u0131na hesab\u0131n\u0131 silmi\u015fler.”<\/p>\n
Doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131k ve ben? Ayn\u0131 c\u00fcmlede? G\u00fclelim de bo\u015fa gitmesin bari \ud83d\ude42 Allah esirgesin, \u015fakas\u0131 bile k\u00f6t\u00fc. Bu ya\u015f\u0131ma ulusal ve uluslararas\u0131 tertemiz sicille gelmi\u015fim hamdolsun. Fakat ben de dahil olmak \u00fczere insanlar \u00f6yle \u00e7ok g\u00fc\u00e7 verdik ki sosyal medya kurulu\u015flar\u0131na, kendi kanunlar\u0131n\u0131 ve kurallar\u0131n\u0131 insan haklar\u0131ndan, hukuktan, devletlerin kanunlar\u0131ndan, uluslararas\u0131 yasalardan \u00fcst\u00fcn g\u00f6rmeye ba\u015flad\u0131lar. Ve bir anda eme\u011finizi hi\u00e7 edebiliyorlar.<\/p>\n
Bu noktada herkesin bir fikri var tabi, G\u00f6kselcim \u015funu dene, bunu dene. Denedik herhalde \ud83d\ude42 Bizim de \u015f\u00fck\u00fcr baz\u0131 tan\u0131d\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z var \ud83d\ude42 Eski hesab\u0131m tamamen silindi. Yeni hesap a\u00e7t\u0131m. A\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131m hesapta yeniden bana mavi tik verilmesini b\u0131rak\u0131n, \u015fimdilik paramla bile alam\u0131yorum mavi tiki. U\u011frad\u0131\u011f\u0131m maddi manevi zarar\u0131 tarif edemem. Peki ya kazand\u0131klar\u0131m? Olay\u0131n \u00fczerinden yakla\u015f\u0131k 2 hafta ge\u00e7ti ve ben Instagram hesab\u0131m\u0131n kapanmas\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131ma gelmi\u015f en g\u00fczel \u015feylerden biri oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n
Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te kaybettiklerim ve kazand\u0131klar\u0131m hakk\u0131nda yine yazaca\u011f\u0131m. Merak ederseniz okursunuz a dostlar.<\/p>\n
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Yeni ak\u0131m medya ve \u00f6zellikle Facebook, ard\u0131ndan Instagram hayat\u0131m\u0131za girdi gireli ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z psikososyal evrimin en b\u00fcy\u00fck par\u00e7as\u0131, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr, bilinir, tan\u0131n\u0131r olmak \u00fczerine \u00e7aba verilmesine ili\u015fkin inan\u00e7lar silsilesi belki de. 2012 y\u0131l\u0131ndan beri “sahibi oldu\u011fum” asl\u0131nda sahibi oldu\u011funu sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m, say\u0131s\u0131z i\u00e7erik \u00fcretti\u011fim, pandemi d\u00f6neminde canl\u0131 yay\u0131nlarla binlerce insana ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m instagram hesab\u0131m nas\u0131l bir gecede silindi gitti, hem de mavi tikimle birlikte, gelin anlatay\u0131m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2774,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,68,69,67],"tags":[37,479,288,933,27,934,675,689,88,797],"class_list":["post-2773","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haber","category-is-dunyasi","category-kultur-sanat","category-gokselden-hashtag","tag-goksel-aksel","tag-goksel-aksel-kimdir","tag-gursel-aksel","tag-instagram-mavi-tik","tag-kisisel-gelisim","tag-mavi-tik-nasil-alinir","tag-nlp-egitimi","tag-nlp-nedir","tag-robinsona-asik-olmak","tag-yeni-nesil-kisisel-gelisim"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2773","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2773"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2773\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2775,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2773\/revisions\/2775"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2774"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2773"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2773"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2773"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}