{"id":2241,"date":"2024-09-09T15:51:44","date_gmt":"2024-09-09T12:51:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/?p=2241"},"modified":"2024-09-09T15:51:44","modified_gmt":"2024-09-09T12:51:44","slug":"gokselden-hashtag-narin-ve-mutluluk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/gokselden-hashtag-narin-ve-mutluluk\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00f6ksel’den Hashtag #Narin ve #Mutluluk"},"content":{"rendered":"

Son zamanlarda \u00fclkemizde ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131 Narin’in kayb\u0131 ve ard\u0131ndan oraya \u00e7\u0131kan korkun\u00e7 ger\u00e7eklerdi. Hi\u00e7 yorum yapmamay\u0131 se\u00e7tim bir s\u00fcre. Ne yaz\u0131k ki ac\u0131 sonla biten ger\u00e7ek bir “Meryem” hikayesiydi bu! \u00a0Y\u0131llarca \u00e7ocuk ve kad\u0131n haklar\u0131, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi savunucusu olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f birisi olarak, sizler i\u00e7in yazd\u0131m… Narin’in an\u0131s\u0131na…<\/p>\n

Diyarbak\u0131r’\u0131n Ba\u011flar il\u00e7esinin Tav\u015fantepe Mahallesi’nde 21 A\u011fustos’ta kaybolan 8 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki Narin G\u00fcran i\u00e7in arama \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 ba\u015flat\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. 19 g\u00fcn sonra cans\u0131z bedeni E\u011fertutmaz Deresi’nin kenar\u0131nda bulunan Narin G\u00fcran’\u0131n Adli T\u0131p Kurumu’ndaki otopsisi d\u00fcn ak\u015fam saatlerinde sona erdi ve internet haberlerine g\u00f6re cenazesi bu sabah kald\u0131r\u0131ld\u0131. Soru\u015fturma kapsam\u0131nda Narin’in babas\u0131, a\u011fabeyleri ve amcalar\u0131 gibi yak\u0131n akrabalar\u0131 da olmak \u00fczere toplam 24 ki\u015fi g\u00f6z alt\u0131na al\u0131nm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Tek y\u00fcrek olup Narin’in ba\u015f\u0131na gelen feci olaylar\u0131 protesto eden vatanda\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z sosyal medyada g\u00fcndem yaratt\u0131lar. Herkesin akl\u0131ndan ge\u00e7en korkun\u00e7 sorular\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda \u015fu soru geliyordu, bu yavrumuzun cans\u0131z bedeni o deredeydi ise nas\u0131l oldu da bug\u00fcne dek bulunamam\u0131\u015ft\u0131?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Baz\u0131 sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131 ne yaz\u0131k ki belli. Yakla\u015f\u0131k 30 y\u0131ld\u0131r mahvolan e\u011fitim sistemi, da\u011f\u0131lan ahlak, laiklikten uzakla\u015ft\u0131k\u00e7a insanlar\u0131n kendilerine bi\u00e7tikleri vah\u015fi bir “\u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fck” anlay\u0131\u015f\u0131, paran\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn ahlak ve eti\u011fin g\u00fcc\u00fcnden \u00fcst\u00fcnle\u015fmesi gibi say\u0131s\u0131z nedeni var Narin’in ba\u015f\u0131na gelenlerin…<\/p>\n

En \u00fcz\u00fcc\u00fc olan ne biliyor musunuz, bu su\u00e7u, bu i\u011fren\u00e7 cinayeti i\u015fleyenler, t\u0131pk\u0131 2012 senesinde M\u0131s\u0131r parlamentosuna “Veda Seksi” ba\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda “\u00d6len e\u015fle 6 saat i\u00e7inde ili\u015fkiye girilebilir” fetvas\u0131n\u0131 yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131 olarak sunan ki\u015filer gibi kendilerini bir \u015fekilde hakl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor olmalar\u0131.<\/strong> Daha da ac\u0131s\u0131, Narin’in ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6y\u00fcn halk\u0131 da bu su\u00e7un faillerini bir \u015fekilde hakl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyor ya da bir \u015fekilde korkuyorlar ki ifade veremiyorlar! Her \u015fekilde t\u00fcmden bir facia bu…<\/p>\n

2007 y\u0131l\u0131nda beyaz perde ile bulu\u015fan ve olduk\u00e7a ses getiren bir film vard\u0131r; Mutlukuk.<\/strong> Z\u00fclf\u00fc Livaneli’nin ayn\u0131 adl\u0131 roman\u0131ndan uyarlamad\u0131r. Filmin senaryosu Abdullah O\u011fuz’a ve Kubilay Tun\u00e7er’e aittir. Y\u00f6netmen koltu\u011funda Abdullah O\u011fuz, ba\u015frollerde ise \u00d6zg\u00fc Namal, Talat Bulut ve Murat Han yer al\u0131r… Meryem rol\u00fc ile seyirciyi g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131na bo\u011fan, oyunculu\u011funa hayran b\u0131rakan \u00d6zg\u00fc Namal’\u0131, “ben hi\u00e7 g\u00fcnah yapmad\u0131m!”<\/strong> repli\u011fi ile hat\u0131rlar\u0131m hep. Narin yavrumuzun ba\u015f\u0131na gelen olay bana ilk andan itibaren Mutluluk filmini hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor ve bu sat\u0131rlar\u0131 yazarken bile a\u011flat\u0131yor… Narin bebek o olaylar\u0131 ya\u015farken kim bilir nas\u0131l korktu, nas\u0131l yard\u0131m istedi, nas\u0131l \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc. Allah’\u0131m ne b\u00fcy\u00fck, ne tarifsiz bir ac\u0131!<\/p>\n

Olan oldu art\u0131k, Narin yavrumuz geri gelmeyecek. Bundan sonra d\u00fcnya y\u0131k\u0131lsa ne gam! Narin’in \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 kim i\u015fitti ki! Yer yar\u0131lsa, cehennem olsa toprak ne gam! Narin’in g\u00f6zya\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kim silebildi ki! G\u00f6k kubbe inse yere, G\u00fcne\u015f s\u00f6nse ne gam! Narin’in tabutuna “gelinlik” giydirildi!<\/p>\n

Yeti\u015fkin insanlar her \u015fartta \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 korumal\u0131 ve kollamal\u0131d\u0131r. G\u00f6r\u00fcnen o ki bizim \u00fclkemizde yeti\u015fkinlerde epeyce bir sorun var. Bundan sonra \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za el s\u00fcr\u00fclmesin diye ayd\u0131nl\u0131k me\u015falesini yakmal\u0131y\u0131z! Okuyan, ayd\u0131n, tam anlam\u0131 ile laik, Atat\u00fcrk ilke ve ink\u0131laplar\u0131n\u0131 anlam\u0131\u015f ve ya\u015fatan bir nesil yeti\u015ftirmeliyiz ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n gelece\u011fini kurtaral\u0131m…<\/p>\n

Narin’in an\u0131s\u0131na…<\/p>\n

G\u00f6ksel Aksel<\/p>\n

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film ad\u0131 ge\u00e7ti\u011fi i\u00e7in #reklam #i\u015fbirli\u011fi<\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Son zamanlarda \u00fclkemizde ya\u015fanan en b\u00fcy\u00fck ac\u0131 Narin’in kayb\u0131 ve ard\u0131ndan oraya \u00e7\u0131kan korkun\u00e7 ger\u00e7eklerdi. Hi\u00e7 yorum yapmamay\u0131 se\u00e7tim bir s\u00fcre. Ne yaz\u0131k ki ac\u0131 sonla biten ger\u00e7ek bir “Meryem” hikayesiydi bu! \u00a0Y\u0131llarca \u00e7ocuk ve kad\u0131n haklar\u0131, toplumsal cinsiyet e\u015fitli\u011fi savunucusu olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f birisi olarak, sizler i\u00e7in yazd\u0131m… Narin’in an\u0131s\u0131na…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":2243,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,67,20],"tags":[443,446,445,439,444,437,438,440,441,442,447],"class_list":["post-2241","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","category-gokselden-hashtag","category-yazilar","tag-murat-han","tag-mutluluk-2007","tag-mutluluk-film","tag-mutluluk-filmi","tag-mutluluk-roman","tag-narin","tag-narin-bebek","tag-narine-ne-oldu","tag-ozgu-namal","tag-talat-bulut","tag-zulfu-livaneli"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2241","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2241"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2241\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2244,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2241\/revisions\/2244"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2243"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2241"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2241"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2241"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}