Bir kez k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapan, \u00e7evresinden tepki g\u00f6rmezse yine yapabilir…<\/strong><\/p>\n Bense olaya bamba\u015fka bir a\u00e7\u0131dan da bak\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum; sosyal \u00e7evre a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan. Kediyi katleden \u0130brahim Kelo\u011flan\u2019\u0131n bir sosyal \u00e7evresi, arkada\u015f grubu yok muydu? Muhtemelen vard\u0131. Peki bu \u015fahs\u0131n hayvanlara, canl\u0131lara zarar verebilen bir insan oldu\u011funu hi\u00e7 mi fark etmemi\u015flerdi? Muhtemelen fark etmi\u015flerdi. Bu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ile Instagram sayfamda iki sorudan olu\u015fan bir anket olu\u015fturdum. \u0130\u015fte sorular ve verilen yan\u0131tlar; “Bana Dokunmayan Y\u0131lan Bin Ya\u015fas\u0131n” m\u0131 peki?<\/strong><\/p>\n Hayat\u0131n\u0131zda bir canl\u0131ya k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck etti\u011fini, zarar verdi\u011fini bildi\u011finiz bir insan ile arkada\u015fl\u0131k eden ba\u015fka bir insan\u0131; yani o k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe dahil olmam\u0131\u015f olsa da k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc yapan ile arkada\u015fl\u0131k eden birini siz arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131z olarak kabul eder miydiniz? Ben etmem. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ok g\u00fczel bir ata s\u00f6z\u00fcm\u00fcz vard\u0131r; \u201cbana arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yle, sana kim oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yleyeyim\u201d.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck bula\u015f\u0131c\u0131d\u0131r de\u011ferli okurlar. Bir insana, herhangi bir canl\u0131ya zarar veren, daha basit gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de kalp k\u0131ran birine \u201cbana dokunmayan y\u0131lan bin ya\u015fas\u0131n\u201d diyerek sosyal destek verirseniz, o ki\u015fi k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapmaya devam eder. O ki\u015finin yak\u0131n \u00e7evresi de ayn\u0131 rahatl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kendilerinde bulur. K\u00f6t\u00fc bir insan sosyal tecrite u\u011frar ise o k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 verilecek en b\u00fcy\u00fck cezay\u0131 alm\u0131\u015f olur. Yine Kelo\u011flan \u00f6rne\u011finden devam edelim. \u0130ddiaya g\u00f6re kedi katili Kelo\u011flan\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi, e\u015finin ceza almamas\u0131na \u00e7ok sevinmi\u015f, yap\u0131lan\u0131 da su\u00e7 olarak g\u00f6rm\u00fcyormu\u015f. Toplumda k\u00f6t\u00fc insanlar\u0131n dostu olmaz alg\u0131s\u0131 olsayd\u0131, \u0130brahim Kelo\u011flan\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi de kendisini desteklemeye \u00e7ekinecekti, d\u0131\u015flanma, k\u0131nanma endi\u015fesi nedeni ile e\u015finin su\u00e7unu savunamayacakt\u0131. \u0130\u015fte buna etik diyoruz\u2026\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n \u0130\u015f D\u00fcnyas\u0131ndan Bir \u00d6rnek!<\/strong><\/p>\n Kelo\u011flan \u00f6rne\u011finden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131ndan bir \u00f6rnekle devam edelim. Bir i\u015f yeri kurgulayal\u0131m. Bu i\u015f yerinde Ay\u015fe, Fatma, Hayriye ve Pakize birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yorlar. Ay\u015fe ve Fatma ayn\u0131 departmandalar ama Ay\u015fe o kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli ki, t\u00fcm i\u015fleri Fatma\u2019ya y\u0131k\u0131yor, Fatma\u2019ya sayg\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k ediyor, dedikodu yap\u0131yor. Ama bunlar\u0131 yaparken de Hayriye ve Pakize\u2019yle iyi ge\u00e7iniyor, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc onlar farkl\u0131 departmandalar. Fatma t\u00fckenmi\u015flik sendromuyla kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131ya iken, Ay\u015fe\u2019yi IK\u2019ya \u015fikayet etmi\u015fken Ay\u015fe i\u015ften ayr\u0131l\u0131p ba\u015fka bir i\u015fe ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Her a\u00e7\u0131dan Fatma\u2019n\u0131n hakl\u0131 oldu\u011funu herkes kabul ediyor. Hayriye ve Pakize ise Ay\u015fe ile arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131na devam ediyorlar, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc bana dokunmayan y\u0131lan bin ya\u015fas\u0131n fikrini savunuyorlar. Sizce Fatma art\u0131k Hayriye ve Pakize\u2019ye g\u00fcvenebilir mi? G\u00fcvenmemelidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Ay\u015fe\u2019nin arkada\u015flar\u0131 da kendi gibi olabilir, bu y\u00fcksek bir ihtimaldir. Hayriye ve Pakize, Ay\u015fe\u2019yi desteklemediklerini s\u00f6yleseler de, onunla ileti\u015fimi kesmeyerek asl\u0131nda ona g\u00fc\u00e7 vermektedirler. Oysa ki Ay\u015fe, Fatma\u2019ya ya\u015fatt\u0131klar\u0131 sonras\u0131nda t\u00fcm i\u015f arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan protesto g\u00f6rseydi belki de k\u00f6t\u00fc olmaktan vazge\u00e7ecekti. Ama b\u00f6yle olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u015fu anda Fatma hari\u00e7 herkes tehlikede. Ay\u015fe k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc cezas\u0131z kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in tekrar k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapacak. Hayriye ve Pakize de k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe meyilliler diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz. Bu \u00fc\u00e7 ki\u015fi bir noktada ya birbirlerine ya ba\u015fkalar\u0131na k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapmaya devam edeceklerdir ihtimali y\u00fcksek g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Toplum ya\u015fam\u0131nda insani de\u011ferleri savunmal\u0131 ve eti\u011fi korumal\u0131y\u0131z. Ben k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yapan birini yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011fe ra\u011fmen hala arkada\u015f olarak hayat\u0131nda tutan ba\u015fka birine de g\u00fcvenemem do\u011frusu. Mesafelerimizi iyi belirlemek, omurgam\u0131z\u0131 korumak \u00f6nemlidir. Bizi biz yapan, durumlar kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki tepkilerimiz, se\u00e7imlerimizdir. O y\u00fczden \u201cinsan\u201d olmay\u0131 ve eti\u011fe sahip \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 iyi \u00f6\u011frenmek gerekir kan\u0131s\u0131nday\u0131m\u2026 T\u00fcm bu nedenlerden \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc \u0130brahim Kelo\u011flan ceza almal\u0131; bunun yan\u0131nda sosyal \u00e7evresi de kendisine ve ailesine mesafe koymal\u0131 diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum\u2026<\/p>\n Sevgiler\u2026<\/p>\n G\u00f6ksel Aksel<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Dikkat! Bu yaz\u0131 felsefi bir yakla\u015f\u0131mla haz\u0131rlanm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131za, bilgi birikiminize ve zihninizin geli\u015fmi\u015fli\u011fine g\u00fcvenmiyorsan\u0131z l\u00fctfen okumay\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1987,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[68,21,67,20],"tags":[126,125,37,123,118,127,128,124],"class_list":["post-1983","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-is-dunyasi","category-blog","category-gokselden-hashtag","category-yazilar","tag-anket","tag-eros-kedi","tag-goksel-aksel","tag-ibrahim-kelog","tag-ibrahim-keloglan","tag-instagram","tag-kamuoyu","tag-kedi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1983","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1983"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1983\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1989,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1983\/revisions\/1989"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1987"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1983"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1983"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1983"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}![\"\"](\"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/Anket-e1707944773435.png\")
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