{"id":1813,"date":"2023-12-08T14:58:26","date_gmt":"2023-12-08T11:58:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/?p=1813"},"modified":"2024-01-26T10:44:54","modified_gmt":"2024-01-26T07:44:54","slug":"ender-sarac-istismarci-mi-istismarci-babalara-ne-olur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/ender-sarac-istismarci-mi-istismarci-babalara-ne-olur\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00f6ksel&#8217;den Hashtag #\u0130stirmar #EnderSara\u00e7"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Ender Sara\u00e7 \u0130stismarc\u0131 m\u0131? \u0130stismarc\u0131 Babalara Ne olur?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde Ender Sara\u00e7\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi (bo\u015fan\u0131yorlarm\u0131\u015f) kendisinden \u015fikayet\u00e7i olmu\u015f, olay bas\u0131na yans\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Sara\u00e7\u2019\u0131n sekizinci s\u0131n\u0131fa giden \u00f6z o\u011fluna istismarda bulundu\u011fu iddia ediliyordu. Ender Sara\u00e7 olay\u0131 pek bir g\u00fcndemde, ki bence \u00e7ok derin soru\u015fturulmas\u0131 gereken bir konu! \u00d6z baban\u0131n \u00f6z o\u011flunu istismar etti\u011fi iddias\u0131, olayla ilgili \u00e7e\u015fitli videolar\u0131n internette dola\u015f\u0131yor olmas\u0131 i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131 bir durum.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0<\/span><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Akl\u0131 ba\u015f\u0131nda, g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f ge\u00e7irmi\u015f bir insan zaten Ender Sara\u00e7\u2019\u0131n e\u015fcinsel ya da biseks\u00fcel e\u011filimleri olan biri oldu\u011funu tahmin edebilir, literat\u00fcrde de buna psikoseks\u00fcel bozukluk denir. \u00d6te yandan kendi \u00f6z \u00e7ocu\u011funu istismar edip etmedi\u011finden emin olamay\u0131z. Oras\u0131 art\u0131k yarg\u0131n\u0131n i\u015fi. \u00c7ocu\u011fun detayl\u0131 ifadeleri al\u0131nacak ve olay ortaya \u00e7\u0131kacak diye \u00fcmit ediyorum.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Peki bu kadar kolay m\u0131? Hay\u0131r, de\u011fil!<\/strong> Benzer bir durumu uzun s\u00fcredir takip ediyorum. \u00d6z babas\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan nitelikli cinsel istismara u\u011frayan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun annesi ac\u0131lar i\u00e7erisinde yarg\u0131 kap\u0131lar\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funu kurtarmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor bir s\u00fcredir. Ben ve dernek arkada\u015flar\u0131m da bu anneye destek olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. Hatta <strong>Sevgili Ye\u015fim Salk\u0131m\u2019dan destek istedim, sa\u011f olsun elinden geleni yapt\u0131 ve olay nihayet derinlemesine inceleniyor.<\/strong> \u0130stismar iddialar\u0131n\u0131n yarg\u0131ya ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131rken en \u00f6nemli beklenti ispat. Fakat cinsel istismar\u0131n, nitelikli cinsel istismar\u0131n fiziksel kan\u0131t\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koymak \u00e7ok zor, hatta imkans\u0131zd\u0131r. Bu noktada istismar durumu ilk kez \u015fikayet edildi\u011finde t\u00fcm yetkililerin en derin, en kapsaml\u0131 \u015fekilde soru\u015fturmay\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fctmesi gerekir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum.<\/p>\n<p>Bahsetti\u011fim nitelikli cinsel istismar durumunu bas\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131y\u0131p kamuoyu deste\u011fi alal\u0131m diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcm ama Ye\u015fim Salk\u0131m, &#8220;yapmay\u0131n, bas\u0131na verirseniz Allah korusun k\u00f6t\u00fc niyetli insanlar \u00e7ocu\u011fun kimli\u011fini if\u015fa edebilir, b\u00f6yle bir olayda \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00e7\u0131karlar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde tutulmal\u0131&#8221; dedi ve <strong>U\u00c7\u0130M (Saadet \u00d6\u011fretmen \u00c7ocuk \u0130stismar\u0131 ile M\u00fccadele Derne\u011fi)<\/strong> ile daha h\u0131zl\u0131 ba\u011flant\u0131 kurmam\u0131z i\u00e7in yard\u0131mc\u0131 oldu. Bas\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131mama fikri \u00e7ok do\u011fruydu. Olay\u0131 kesinlikle bas\u0131ndan uzak tutmaya karar verdik ve i\u00e7inde bulundu\u011fumuz g\u00fcnlerde t\u00fcm avukatlar seferber \u015fekilde \u00e7ocu\u011fu babadan uzak tutabilmek ve baban\u0131n yarg\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in ellerinden geleni yap\u0131yorlar.<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\"> Dilerim ki k\u0131sa s\u00fcrede \u00e7ocu\u011fun iyili\u011fi y\u00f6n\u00fcnde sonu\u00e7lan\u0131r, takipteyiz&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Ender Sara\u00e7\u2019\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funu istismar etti\u011fi iddias\u0131n\u0131 kim, neden ve hangi ama\u00e7la bas\u0131na ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131lar bilemiyorum, ama bence \u00e7ok yanl\u0131\u015f yapt\u0131lar. Ergenli\u011fe ad\u0131m atan bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zel hayat\u0131n\u0131n, banyodaki babas\u0131yla videosuna kadar bas\u0131na d\u00f6k\u00fclmesi sizce do\u011fru mu? Ayr\u0131ca banyoda neden kamera vard\u0131? Konu bir \u00e7ocuk ile ilgiliyse, \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimini, ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, gelece\u011fini olumsuz etkileyecek her t\u00fcr i\u00e7eri\u011fin sakl\u0131 olmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Umar\u0131m g\u00fczel \u015fekilde ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, psikolog ifadeleri derinlemesine incelenir ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun iyili\u011fi y\u00f6n\u00fcnde bir karar \u00e7\u0131kar\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Son y\u0131llarda istismar, ensest ve cinsel \u015fiddet olaylar\u0131ndaki art\u0131\u015f\u0131 neye ba\u011fl\u0131yorsunuz? T\u00fcm televizyon ve internet dizilerinde, sosyal medyada o kadar \u00e7ok provakasyon var ki, psikoseks\u00fcel bozuklu\u011fun yayg\u0131nla\u015fmamas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil. Sizlerden ricam, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00e7ok dikkatli takip edin. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n arkada\u015f \u00e7evresini, internet kullan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131, okudu\u011fu ve takip etti\u011fi hesaplar\u0131 kontrol edin. Ama en \u00f6nemlisi kendinizi kontrol edin. Siz kendiniz o mecralardan uzak durun ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuz da sizi \u00f6rnek als\u0131n\u2026 Okuyun, ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131n, soru\u015fturun, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Sevgilerimle\u2026<\/p>\n<p>G\u00f6ksel Aksel<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ender Sara\u00e7 \u0130stismarc\u0131 m\u0131? \u0130stismarc\u0131 Babalara Ne olur? Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde Ender Sara\u00e7\u2019\u0131n e\u015fi (bo\u015fan\u0131yorlarm\u0131\u015f) kendisinden \u015fikayet\u00e7i olmu\u015f, olay bas\u0131na yans\u0131m\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Sara\u00e7\u2019\u0131n sekizinci s\u0131n\u0131fa giden \u00f6z o\u011fluna istismarda bulundu\u011fu iddia ediliyordu. Ender Sara\u00e7 olay\u0131 pek bir g\u00fcndemde, ki bence \u00e7ok derin soru\u015fturulmas\u0131 gereken bir konu! \u00d6z baban\u0131n \u00f6z o\u011flunu istismar etti\u011fi iddias\u0131, olayla ilgili \u00e7e\u015fitli videolar\u0131n internette dola\u015f\u0131yor olmas\u0131 i\u00e7ler ac\u0131s\u0131 bir durum.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1814,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,21,67,20],"tags":[70,71],"class_list":["post-1813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-haber","category-blog","category-gokselden-hashtag","category-yazilar","tag-ender-sarac","tag-istismar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1813"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1813\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1941,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1813\/revisions\/1941"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1814"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gokselaksel.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}